Sunday, 31 January 2016

Friends

Friends are important people in one's life, most times they are life savers but some can also ruin your life, more reason why you must be careful when making friends, this was what has been on my mind since yesterday.
Now to the story proper. . . .
I met Mr A on a social network, he was staying in another state which was like an hour drive from my school, he choose to drive down to my school to see me few days later  which blew my mind but got me doubting his intentions.
I am a very sensitive person which I guess is one of the reasons while I am still single, I do a lot of analysis before going on a date with anyone, I hate wasting my time.
Fast forward to the morning of his first visit he asks for pictures which was not a big deal until he said he does not mind some sexy pictures. . . "I was like uncle what are you saying now", lovely people my doubts about Mr A being Mr right increased (don't try to overlook the signs.. "a fuckboy will surely give you the signs")
Valentine is in two weeks  and it can make some of us single people to feel  left out so I felt maybe it was just a mistake on his part, that is how Mr A came down to my school that night, I informed him immediately that I won't be able to go out since it was already late which he agreed that he just needed to see my face personally and I agreed see him.. . . on getting outside the story changed (when you give a fuckboy an inch he will take a yard)  and we went out, through out the date he was dropping hint of lodging me.... "oga who does that" I refused though.
Next day he came to pick me and said I won't be returning till the next day.. lol.. like the confirm stubborn Ekiti girl that I am I told him straight to go back to his house, he called me some hours later to say he was just joking and felt offended, as a good girl I apologised and  promise to go to the mall with him the next day.
I failed to tell you that Mr A is very caring??  He is also a very attentive fellow, the few hours I spent with him he was all about my comfort and satisfaction but me being the suspicious lammy felt it was all for show, so I decided to ask a friend about it , God bless her for me, she gave me some wonderful advice and reminded me of some things. (sometimes we just need people to remind us of who we are)
Fast forward to yesterday Mr A called in his all caring way asked how I was doing and I said  not so great, he said I should go have my bathe that he is coming to meet me, mind you I was liking him I felt touched until Mr A informed me that we were going to his house and not the mall "he must be crazy" (another taking of advantage).  Something told me I was going to know what he really wants that day because he will be returning to his Base that day, so I kept quiet until we got to his place, I was comfortable until Mr A showed his real character " baba do you want to rape me". That was how I left Mr A place with a torn slippers, the Caring Mr A did not even offer to take me home and I had to walk to the bus stop"the bus stop was very far"(he is definitely a fuckboy for this last stunt).
Thanks to Miss B who gave me a little friendly advice  yesterday morning , I might have woken up this morning as a medal on the belt of Mr A and still very single, #stayawayfromfuckboys.
What sorts of advice do your friends provide you..... I hear you are the average of the people you hang out with. Make friends with great minds they make you a better person.
I wasted my time and energy.... Lammy is still single.... Valentine is in two weeks....

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